Since 3abda54d80 we prefer the format
of the filter. This reverses the selection of the default value when
negotiating buffers from the target to the follower.
If the follower does not select a reasonable value for the buffer size,
for example, this then results in wrongly sized buffers.
Fix this by reversing the order of allocation from target to follower
where we let the target (converter) select a default value, which is
more likely to be correct.
See #4713, #4619
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