config.h needs to be consistently included before any standard headers
if we ever want to set feature test macros (like _GNU_SOURCE or whatever)
inside. It can lead to hard-to-debug issues without that.
It can also be problematic just for our own HAVE_* that it may define
if it's not consistently made available before our own headers. Just
always include it first, before everything.
We already did this in many files, just not consistently.
Don't spam the warning about kernel missing features required for snap
on every pulseaudio connection, but instead show it only once, as the
situation is not going to improve.
