There are now three hook priorities: low, normal, high.
High priority hooks are executed *first*. Normal next, and last the
low priority hooks.
The renderer's terminal refresh hook now runs as a normal priority
hook.
It is perfectly possible, and legal, for a FDM handler to delete
another handler. The problem however is when the epoll returned array
of FD events contain the removed FD handler *after* the handler that
removed it.
That is, if the epoll returned array is:
[FD=13, FD=37]
and the handler for FD=13 removes FD=37, then given the current
implementation, the FD user data (our handler callback etc) will point
to a free:d address.
Add support for this situation by deferring FD handler removal *when
called from another handler*.
This is done by "locking" the FDM struct before looping the handlers
for FDs with events (and unlocking afterwards).
In fdm_del(), we check if the FDM has been locked, in which case the
FD is marked as deleted, and put on a deferred list. But
not *actually* deleted.
Meanwhile, in the FDM poll function, we skip calling handlers for
marked-for-deletion FDs.
Then, when all FDs have been processed, we loop the deferred list and
finally deletes the FDs for real.
