include: prefer alsa/asoundlib.h for apps, dependency cleanups

Fixes several issues with header files:

- prefer alsa/asoundlib.h file for the alsa-lib core functionalities
  (use #warning to inform current and future developers, do the job)
- include alsa/asoundlib.h in headers for external plugins by default
- pcm_external.h: dependencies cleanup
- as benefit, the parsers in IDEs should get all information for individial
  header files (see PR#435)

This change was mainly tergetted to fix errors caused by wrong include order
(like for endianness detection, missing typedefs etc.).

Closes: https://github.com/alsa-project/alsa-lib/issues/431
Link: https://github.com/alsa-project/alsa-lib/pull/435
Signed-off-by: Jaroslav Kysela <perex@perex.cz>

include/ump.h

@@ -6,11 +6,15 @@
  * API library for ALSA rawmidi/UMP interface
  */
 
+#if !defined(__ASOUNDLIB_H) && !defined(ALSA_LIBRARY_BUILD)
+/* don't use ALSA_LIBRARY_BUILD define in sources outside alsa-lib */
+#warning "use #include <alsa/asoundlib.h>, <alsa/ump.h> should not be used directly"
+#include <alsa/asoundlib.h>
+#endif
+
 #ifndef __ALSA_UMP_H
 #define __ALSA_UMP_H
 
-#include "rawmidi.h"
-
 #ifdef __cplusplus
 extern "C" {
 #endif